We Do Not Support Sexism – Anywhere!!

5 Feb

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We’re glad that this issue is starting to get around.

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As a UK based, small business which progressed from a hobby to our full time jobs (yes I did say “our” – husband and wife ), we are proud to support ALL small businesses whether male or female run.

In our opinion sexuality stands for nothing when it comes to running a business. Running a business is about commitment and skill, knowledge of your product and customer base, marketing and putting time into doing what you love!!

We are proud to support UK small businesses of all genders, locations and varieties… we are proud to be a part of many fabulous networking pages including Craftymakers, Networking Angels and I Run A Small Business.

As many of you will be aware, today there has been an outcry after a message was posted on the home page of the UK Small Business Directory.

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Yet another article about the ‘Blurred Lines’ controversy [TRIGGER WARNING: contains references to sexual assault]

15 Nov

TRIGGER WARNING: contains references to sexual assault and links to articles that explicitly mention sexual assault.

I’m getting seriously bored by how long this has been in the media, not because I don’t care about the issue, but because everyone is just repeating the same stuff: banning the song from Students’ Unions amounts to censorship and is against Freedom of Speech, blah blah blah… But every single debate I have read seems to overlook the fact that some (around 20) institutions refusing to play a certain song, is not censorship but rather boycotting. People can still access the song; in shops, on the radio, on the internet. This song has not been censored in the UK.

If Robin Thicke’s unpleasant song is played in Students’ Unions, he will receive royalties each time it is played. I think that the SUs should be making this point when announcing their decision to ‘ban’ the song: they are boycotting it, refusing to endorse it by giving the singer money and airtime, not committing a totalitarian example of censorship.

The ‘Blurred Lines’ lyrics are by no means the most misogynist you can find, but this is not the point. As this blog post shows, some of the lyrics in this song are horribly similar to things that rapists and sexual assaulters have said to their victims. And as this recent study shows, even the phrases used by mainstream lad’s mags are linguistically similar to the phrases rapists use to justify their crime.

What is so upsetting about these examples is that they display just how normalised and acceptable it is to say these things – so acceptable that many people have trouble even understanding how the Blurred Lines lyrics can be construed as misogynistic. Once again, the media portrays us as man-hating feminists overreacting to ‘just a bit of harmless fun’.

 

Rowan Hope Campbell

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3 Nov

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JUSTICE HAS PREVAILED (and more dramatic lines from movies)

20 May

humanSHROUK EL ATTAR HAS BEEN GRANTED INDEFINITE LEAVE!

If you don’t know already, Shrouk is one of Cardiff most famous and most loved citizens and she has been waiting for a decision on her asylum application for… well, I don’t know… years… literally. And so it is with everybody’s great pleasure that we tell you this good news today.

I won’t dwell too much on the past because, to be honest, I wouldn’t know where to start. I also wouldn’t know where to end, which tells me that there would be a lot in the middle and, really, it’s too close to my bedtime for an in depth analysis about all that’s happened.

But I will tell you what happened today. 

About thirty sooted and booted anarchists, queers, hippies and lovers all came along to Columbus House courts in Newport to support Shrouk. It doesn’t sound like many until one tries to cram them all into a room with a seated capacity of about ten (including the five seats reserved for Shrouk, her two representatives, the presenter for the Home Office, and another man whose role I am unsure of).

So we’re off to a fantastic start already. The Home Office representative asked the judge that the Home Office be allowed to stall the hearing until a later date and then it was two full hours of arguing whether or not the judge was within his power to actually give the Home Office permission to this. My personal understanding – or, interpretation – of the Home Office’s request is that it didn’t have a strong enough case to argue that Shrouk should be deported. The court was adjourned (is that the right word?) for fifteen minutes. Some of us smoked, others prayed and chanted while the rest RANSACKED the vending machines (who knew that listening could be so tiring!?). When we were called in, we were told that the judge did in fact have the power to decide whether or not to grant the Home Office permission to stall the case. He did not grant that permission. Then, in a most unceremonial way, he said that Shrouk was to be granted indefinite leave. We weren’t sure what had happened, especially because the court had been arguing over a technical matter for two hours… we’d dug our heels in for a full day of back-and-forth arguing, but no… that was it. It was decided it. The judge clarified the point for us. Yes, we heard it right, Shrouk has been granted indefinite leave!! 

The court erupted in applause and, as Jake put it so eloquently: queers in tears.

This has been a fine day for justice indeed.

Important changes for Cardiff Feminist Network

10 May

Yesterday, Sara Giro and I attended a grantfinder session with a lovely lady called Thoria who works for the Cardiff 3rd Sector Council. The purpose of this session was to source potential funding pots for future CFN events. Alongside this, we were given some very useful advice about how CFN might become a charity, limited company, or Charitable Incorporated Organisation (CIO). The reason why we have been talking about this is that, as a non-affiliated community group, CFN has very limited access to funding opportunities. Since we want to increase our potential as a community activist group, it makes sense to look at this restructuring as a solution to that everlasting question in the grassroots movement: where’s the money going to come from? After listening to Thoria’s summary of the pros and cons of each legal structure, Sara and I have concluded that becoming a CIO is the most obvious way forward for our group. It seems to us the least risky option.  On paper, it would mean that CFN labours under the CIO name but, really, on a day-to-day basis for members, it won’t change anything (except that we will have more events and campaigns to look forward to). For more information about what becoming a CIO entails, please look here.

So what does this mean for us, right now? 

Well, firstly, we need to become a fully-fledged member of the Cardiff 3rd Sector Council. In order to do this, we need to have a constitution. This is a document that summarises the purpose(s) of our network, our legal structure, how decisions are made, how members are admitted, and so on. It is about two pages long. I have written one up today and have sent it to Sara and Hannah Austin (the founding member of CFN) for commentary. When we are all satisfied that it is a working document, we will call our first AGM as a network. Expect this to happen in the next two weeks. Yes, it’s hasty, but if we are going to organise more events, we need to have money, so we need to register as a legally recognised charitable organisation, so we need to have the advice of C3SC. Some other reasons why we’d like to become a fully-fledged member of C3SC is that they can offer us some great benefits such as regular grantfinder sessions, training sessions for up to 2 representatives of CFN on various subjects and issues (such as community fundraising, charity law, etc) and regular access to advice from third sector experts. All this for free.

I really hope that no-one is reading this and thinking, but you’ve done all of this without our consent. That would be a fair judgement. I have mentioned these happenings on the CFN FB group several times. Our actions at the time really only warranted limited reference – all we were doing at time was wondering whether or not CFN could get funding for a film club/festival (curated by me) and for a women’s art exhibition (curated by Sara Giro and Arron Kuiper). However, since it looks like we will have to change the legal structure of our group in order to get any money, we (obviously) then  have to tell you.

What does this mean in the long run?

Well, day-to-day, for our everyday members, it doesn’t change anything. Not at first, anyway. With a lot of work and a little bit of luck, we might just be able to start running some events and programmes that do impact on our members’ everyday lives, whether through educational programmes or through socialising and networking. Maybe we’re being optimistic.

Day-to-day for committee members, it would mean keeping an extra eye on opportunities for CFN. What can we feasibly hope to achieve as a network and how do we go about making some of these things happen?

Overall, though, what we’d like to avoid is getting bogged down in administration, guidelines and rules. We’ve worked well so far as an informal group and we’d like to keep it that way (for the most part). It’s just the way of it that when money becomes an issue, legal structures have to be put in place (or one of us has to have a rich, philanthropically-inclined aunt).

To end this post, I would like to propose another change: behavioural policy. We’ve had issues in the past with some members dominating debates and conversations and it has alienated some members (potential and actual). On one or two occasions, these people have been removed from the group (as a last resort) as it was deemed to be in the best interests of everyone involved. To date, no-one has ever complained that the actions taken were the wrong ones.

Now, to prevent these situations from occurring again, I propose that we write a short, definitive policy that lays out the network members’ expectations of each other. I don’t want this to spell the end of informalism within the network and, for the most part, we’ve done very well without having to refer to policies, rules, or expectations. But sometimes it does need to be said that everyone has the right to be listened to and to be respected without fear of being insulted.

If you have any comments, ideas, or even criticisms, please do let me know. This is something that I’d like to add to the website and FB group relatively soon.

Thank you all.

Molly

** EDIT: Sara has kindly reminded me that there is a social on Sunday (for which you can find details here). If you have any questions at all about these proposed changes then please do come along.

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Million Women Rise 2013 – London, Saturday March 9th

25 Apr

Youtube link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFpTFhwOIqg

In the morning of March 9th a 37 strong group of women got on a bus outside the Cardiff Museum to march on Trafalgar Square. Some, like myself, went the night before, rushing from work and local International Women’s Day events to catch a train to London. But I hear the all-women-bus bus is quite the experience!

The Million Women Rise march is a women-only march which aims to raise awareness of MALE violence against WOMEN. Here’s a couple of reasons why marching is still important today:

  • One woman in four will experience domestic violence at some point in her life.
  • Domestic violence has more repeat victims than any other crime (on average there will have been 35 assaults before a victim calls the police).
  • Two women are murdered every week by their partner or ex partner.
  • One incident of domestic violence is reported to the police every minute.
  • One woman in four will experience sexual assault as an adult.
  • Only 5% of rapes reported to the police result in the perpetrator being convicted in court.
  • Women are more worried about rape than any other crime.
  • 250 cases of forced marriage are reported each year.
  • Up to 1,420 women per year are trafficked into the UK for sexual exploitation
  • One woman a month is murdered in the name of ‘so called’ honour.
  • Nearly 90% of local authorities do not have a rape crisis centre.
  • Over 20,000 girls could be at risk of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) in the UK.

The marching women met at 12:00 on Oxford Street. The bus from Cardiff got there just in time to start marching, bringing CFN members and a strong presence of Welsh Women’s Aid and Swansea Women’s Aid. The atmosphere was proud and celebratory, a never ending supply of free veggie curry and cake brought by Food For All, kept us all warm and energised and I immediately got the sense that it was a safe environment. This is important to experience on a crowded London street every once in a while. It reminds me that thinks can be different and better.

The March was attended by women of all ages, many creeds, nationalities and from all over the country. The vibrant banners included groups, campaigns and organisations as varied as the Socialist Women’s Union, The No More Page 3 Campaign, The East London Feminists, The Women and Girls Network, the Black Feminists, the Day-Mer and Ulch Women’s Group, Unison, East Midlands Million Women Rise, 8 March Women Organisation (Iran-Afghanistan) and many others.

We were marching alongside The London Feminists for a while and their chants were great. This one was definitely among the favourites:

“Here we are marching on the streets singing: We are women we’re not pieces of meat.
We are strong: we are strong. We are proud: we are proud.
We are strong, we are proud and together we’ll be loud.”

The ensuring rally in Trafalgar Square, brought us a variety of voices, alongside many talented performers. I found the women from the Congo particularly moving, as they sang a beautiful song and made a heartfelt appeal for women in the Congo where sexual violence continues to be used as a weapon of war.

A cheeky pint in Soho and we were headed to the women-only after party at The 52 Club. More free food and the young & awesome DJ Queenie eased us into an evening of performances which sadly was cut short when the bus came back to pick up and take most of the group home. I was one of the lucky ones to stay and have the pleasure of listening to The Feminist Choir and have a laugh with the comedian Sindhu V.

Link to Sindhu V: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxur-rZvNb4

In the end it was estimated that 10000 women marched through the streets of London on March 9th. Now it is time to take all that energy and solidarity and continue to make women’s issues heard in our communities throughout the UK. By this time next year, lets hope the march is even bigger and the Welsh bus to full capacity.

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Million Women Rise is the collective of women behind the organisations of this march. They work autonomously as volunteers, without any corporate sponsorship or formal funding. They promote change that is based on truth, unity, peace and love and rely on donations in order to keep their autonomy. There are no paid staff at Million Women Rise and all donations go directly towards their work. They need to raise £18,000 for the next march to take place, covering costs such as public liability insurance, stage hire and audio equipment for Trafalgar Square. They also organise conscious raising events and activities through out the year and are currently developing a space to provide support groups for women who are overcoming their experiences of male violence and a training programme for volunteers.

Please give as generously as you can here: http://www.millionwomenrise.com/donate-and-support.html#.UUMqPVd2uuI

SARA GIRO CORREIA

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Free events coming up…

18 Apr

While at work, I’ve come across details of two events coming up in the near and nearish future in Cardiff. The first one is this ‘Policy Cafe’ at Cardiff University, due to take place next week – Tuesday 23rd April. Absolutely everyone is welcome, but you do have to register in order to attend (I guess it is so that the organisers can be sure that they have enough seats?). The main question of the event is ‘What and Who Needs Funding in Wales’? An emotion-loaded question for a lot of us reading this, I would imagine! Personally, I’m going to this event because there is plenty of funding that Cardiff Feminist Network could do with having and it would be great to get some insight into the workings-out of the people who award funding in Wales. Who knows? This could spell the beginning of some more exciting times for CFN.

Details for this event can be found here.

The second event, perhaps of more relevance to CFN members, is the Women’s Equality Network conference on June 21st at the Coal Exchange. The theme of this particular event is ‘CEDAW – Your Rights as Women In Wales’. EXCITING! An actual conference organised by feminists for feminist for free! Which, to my mind, is such a refreshing event because women in Wales tend not to have a fat lot of cash. Not the ones I know, anyway. However, you are more than welcome to make a donation to WEN if you so wish. This will help them to put on more free events in the future.

More details for this event can be found here.

MOLLY

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